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The Subtle Art Of Faking.

The guy in the centre, Vladimir Putin, never misses to mesmerise me.

Whenever he is with world leaders he is full of confidence. Wherever, whenever, in whatever situation, he is always confident about himself.

Many world leaders are full of confidence and have high self esteem. So, why does Vladimir Putin impresses me?

Because his height is 5 feet 7 inches.

For me he is the perfect example of “Never Feel Inferior”.

One would argue that he is powerful and that's why he feels confident.

So, I ask, why don't you feel powerful?

You feel what you think. You become what you think. You control your mind.

You have to fool yourself to be confident.

You have to continously tell yourself that you are powerful, intelligent and good looking. You have to keep on telling until and unless you feel powerful and confident about yourself.

You feel inferior because you think others are better than you. And that snatches away your confidence from you.

One thing you need to learn if you want to be confident is that never consider others superior to you.

Treating every human equally is the key to confidence.

Walking on a road? Keep your head high like you are the king of that area.

About to give a speech? Your listeners are humans just like you. Chill. They are not going to eat you if you make mistakes.

Appearing for an interview? Your interviewer is a human being just like you and he pooped today morning like you.

No matter how many books you read or videos you watch or seminars you attend for boosting your confidence, until and unless you don't change your thought process, you will never ever feel confident about yourself.

Stand in front of the mirror every day,

Fall in love with Yourself every day.

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